Tuesday 16 September 2014

1838 Days of London

I always look forward to September because no matter what September always brings a change for me. It almost like September is my new year, to start fresh and redirect my life or push it forward to the next stage. 

When I was younger the school year always started in September, so I was either starting a new School or at least starting a new school year. I would get to put on my new uniform and pack up my new stationary and get ready to face what ever challenges I might come come up against. 

One of my most monumental Septembers was in 2009, the year I left my place of birth and moved to London. I grew up in Surrey, I got my education there, all my friends lived there and  my family home, the only home I had ever known. I had lived in the same house for 16 years, and earlier in the year I had to move out as my Mum moved to Scotland and I was in the middle of my final year of college, I decided to stay behind and moved in with an Aunt I really didn't know all too well. 

And it was my support group of all the people in Surrey that got me through. I didn't have my physical home any more, but the familiar streets were home, my friends were home, the trees that line every Surrey road was home. 

My wonderful friends who helped me out so much when my mum moved away


When I got my college A-level results I was sat in a cow shed logged onto a computer in  a makeshift internet cafe with my best friend, and I suddenly realised I would be moving away to London. Away from everything I had always known into something I had always wanted. I had achieved the most amazing thing I had ever done, I had got into university. I got myself through my GCSE's without too much support, I had dropped out of my first round of college and on my second attempt doing A-level my mum had up rooted the family, and yet I still managed to maintain my college work and it had lead to that moment, at 8 am in cowshed in Somerset. 

One of the hardest parts of moving was not having my parents to help prepare me to move. I had a friend who I had grown up with, he had lived across the road from me and our mum were best friends, and he had his mum too him out to buy things like plates and kitchen ware and new bedding, and I tagged along,, not really knowing what to do or where to start. My very best friend, who had been with my in the cow shed, did her best to include me in her uni prep but I started to realise how on my own I was. 

Don't get my wrong both my parents are amazingly supportive, but distance limits the actions they carry out. I feel in that one month of preparing to move to uni on my own, working out this maze of unknown territory of kitchen pan sets and storage solutions I became incredibly independent and have remained so ever since. 

I moved to London on September the 17th 2009. I packed everything of value into my Dad's car and he too me to Greenwich, he dropped me off, and he couldn't hang around long, he was only allowed to park for half and hour I think, and suddenly I was alone in this city,in a single room with my possessions in boxes for the second time in a year, with my friends dotted up and down the country and my family spread out as well, and I had not idea what the future had in store, in one year my life had totally changed, everything I knew was different now.

 
My lovely uni house mates in our first year


Turns out a lot of amazing things and opportunities. The past five years have been amazing. I have met some amazing people, and done some pretty impressive stuff and even got a degree and fell in love along the way, and still every September my life would take a new turn.

September 2010 

I moved in with friends into the worlds worst house in Lewisham, and got my first ever London based job

September 2011 

I moved into a shared flat with one of my old House mates and met my boyfriend 

September 2012 

My boyfriend moved in with me, and I went to my first ever wedding that just so happened to be my Best friends, and to to celebrate my year anniversary with my boyfriend, which was also marked my longest relationship ever

September 2013

 I quit my job in the start of the month and by the end I started a new one, and I started a College course

And here I am in September again, and I am facing the biggest change since my move to London. That is my moved out of London, today September 16th 2014 I submitted the final bits of paperwork for a flat in Kent. I have let everyone at work know I am leaving, told my Landlord in London I won't be signing a new lease and started getting things ready to leave. 

It is an end of an era, a great era, in five years a little patch of the world I knew nothing about became a new home, red buses line the streets instead of trees and some of the friends I held so close and drifted away and new ones have filled their gap, and the streets I call home have different names now. On the 29th of September I will walk out of this little flat in London and into a whole new Chapter of my life. It's scary  and its exciting, the sea will be on my door stop instead of the tube, and family once again within touching distance. 

I am excited, this next chapter 

Rella

Xx

Tuesday 2 September 2014

Social Media Book Tag


So this is the Social Media book that which is basically a questionnaire based on books with the question inspire by different type of social media websites. it's been floating around for a while and I recently saw Kristina Horner do it on her YouTube channel and I decided I would fill it out on here !


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► Your favourite short book (under 200 pages)
I Want My Hat Back by  Jon Klassen



This is in fact a children's book, and I picked it up one day in Waterstones while I was browsing with my boyfriend because I thought the cover was funny, and me and him laughed out loud in the middle of the shop while reading it. It is very funny. I find that children's story books are getting funnier these days which I think is great because it encourages adult to read more to children and enjoy the experience together

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► A book that everyone pressured you to read.
 Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K Rowling



I was about this book as a gift when I was 10 in the year of it's release in 2000. I was given it by a family friend because everyone knew I enjoyed reading, I loved Jacqueline Wilson and always have one of her books on the go. However the issue here was that I didn't own any of the other books. My brother had the first few but I had never picked them up.
I took this book to school as my free reading book, because it was massive and it made me feel smart and I liked the dragon on the front. However I didn't know the Harry Potter books were a series and you had to read them in order. So when my teacher came to sit with me so I could do my reading session with her I had no idea what was going on, and it didn't make sense and there were no dragons in the start, and after about two weeks I swapped books to another Jacqueline Wilson book, much to my teachers disappointment as she was a Potter fan !

About a year later my Aunt bought my all the current Potter books, including a new Goblet of Fire which was good as mine had been destroyed by me carrying around all the time because it made me feel important and smart !And devoured them and I fell in love with the books, and still love them to this day.

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► A book you read before it was cool.

Divergent Trilogy by Veronica Roth 

I must say though, this is one of my least favourite book covers ever!


I read these books back when the trilogy was unfinished and as I got further and further through the second book I tried to slow down as there was still no news of the Third book getting a release date. My local Waterstone didn't carry these books in stock at the time, I would often look for them as I had heard so many positive reviews about them, but they were never there and in the end I had to place and order for them so I could buy them, as I always like to support my local book store if I can afford to buy the book new ( If i can only afford second hand unfortunately I still go through Amazon) 

I loved this series for the most part, I loved Tris's character especially in the first book, because unlike many dystopian female leads, she wasn't very strong or skilled to start with, she had to work hard and she was often bullied, but she fought hard to do well and I loved that. I also loved the strong friendship bond she made and the importance they played in keeping her motivated. It made such a nice changed from the normal hard shelled loner protagonist we often see. 

I felt the series did let me down a bit in the third book, and the writing was as strong as in the second, and I felt the love story did become a little bit too central to the story but over all I love the books, and I am glad they are getting the recognition they deserve. Also Roth was only 22 when her books were published and that is awesome.

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► A book that you liked when you were younger, but you probably would not like now.

 The boy in the Burning House by Tim Wynne-Jones



For so long I loved this book mainly for the cover, it was dark and dangerous and everything about it seemed so grown up to me. I read this when I was about 14 and I myself was getting into heavy music and dressing darkly and basically finding my own personality and this book fitted right in with it. Before this I was always reading Harry Potter or Jacqueline Wilson or something similar and widely popular. This however was unknown and when I told people about it  they were unfamiliar with it and it made me feel cool.

The book is about a young boy Jim trying to find out if his father was killed or had simply vanished, after a year of no news of him, a young girl called Ruth Rose the pastors daughter help Jim to discover a shocking truth. I did re-read this book when I was about 18 as I was still telling people it was one of my favourite books. But really it wasn't as great or dark as I remembered it. It was definitely a good book to transition me from Children's Literature into Young Adults / Teen fiction but it certainly not as great as 13 year old me made out.

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► A book that has the most beautiful cover in existence.
Alice's Adventure in Wonderland and other Stories by Lewis Carroll Barnes and Noble Leather-bound Edition 

This photo does it no justice as to how beautiful it really is


This book is just beautiful ! and I love Alice in Wonderland, I have three copies of Wonderland books, and there is another edition I plan to get because again I love the cover. I view my book shelf both as my personal library, but also a collection, if there is a book a love and they bring out a new cover or an anniversary edition then I will buy it because books are beautiful. 

The Barnes and Noble Leather-bound books are just glorious I also have the Sherlock Holmes Complete Stories, The Secret Garden and Greek Mythology books from this collection and there are about five more book there I desperately want, and will be first thing on my Christmas list. 

There is just so much detail on the cover, the art work is wonderful, they feel beautiful as well. If you get a chance go into your local book store and pick one up and see for yourself.

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► A book that you wish was made into a movie. 
Unwind by Neil Shusterman



I picked this up as a part of the old 2 for 3 offer Waterstone use to always run, which has now been placed with the buy one get one half price offer. I took it with me to the Summer Camp I use to work at and my friend read it before me, and then told me I had to read it as she enjoyed it so much. It is about a procedure called Unwinding, which can be performed on teenagers under 16 who are either troublesome, unwanted or as part of a religious ceremony. Their body part are basically donated to others and nothing is wasted there for they aren't dead they are just spread out among many bodies. The book focusses one three teenagers who are being Unwound for different reasons and their journey to save themselves.

I loved it and I was classed as my favourite book for years, and in about 2007 Tasty Film bought the rights to the film.  However after some money issues production came to a stand still and nothing more has been said about the film. The Unwind IMbD page say the release date would be in 2016 but there is no further information. With films such as Divergent and Hunger Games doing so well at the moment and The Fault in Our Stars showing how great young adult literature can be for inspiration for films I think now would be a great time to make this film, but only time will tell.

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► A book that you would recommend to anyone and everyone.

The Help by Kathryn Stockett 



This is such an emotional and inspiring store, I owned this book for about a year and a half before I read it because I was worried I wouldn't like. It is a fairly long book, 451 pages, and has a very small print and I didn't want to have to drag myself through that and not enjoy it.

But one month, I was low on money and couldn't afford to buy any books, so I went to my shelf picked it up and start and I could not put it down. I stayed up late reading it, and picked up first thing in the morning. I was recommending it to people before I had even finished reading. 

The book is about young Miss Skeeter who has returned home from Ole Mis having got herself a degree in journalism, and she is trying to fit back into life where her friends host Dinner Parties, and Bridge club while maids raise their children. Set in the 1960's where slavery has been abolished, but blacks were not seen as equal. Skeeter sets herself the challenge or writing down the stories of The Help, but women are too scared to come forward and talk and her friends don't want her to distract their maids from their work. 

It is a brilliantly written book, written from both Skeeter, her best friends maid Aibileen and Aibileen's friend Minny's point of view it give and insight into people attitudes to race and women during this time. It is brilliant, one of the best books I have ever read. It will make you cry and laugh and you will learn something from it. Seriously if you haven't already go out and get yourself this book.



I would love it if you guys filled this out on your own blogs, Facebook page or Tumblr I would love to read your answers

Rella Xx